Though Stephen Covey is no longer with us, he left us with a wonderful gift and wealth of knowledge. As I often times tend to feel really over-committed, I reminded myself this evening of the habits Covey shared with me many years ago. May he rest in peace.
Below I will share these 7 habits along with a brief summary of what each habit really means. Next time you are feeling “unbalanced” or stressed out, take responsibility and look at these habits as a good reminder on how you can turn things around for yourself.
1. Be proactive: Don’t wait for opportunities to come to you. Take responsibility for your life and understand that you life’s choices are exactly that- yours.
2. Begin with the end in mind: Envision what you want to achieve so that you have a clear destination in mind.
3. Put first things first: Focus on your highest priorities (say no sometimes if you need to).
4. Think win-win: How can a situation come out positive for all involved? Always strive to achieve this.
5. Seek first to understand, then to be understood: Listen, then talk. And just as important, listen for the true and deeper meaning.
6. Synergize: Use creative cooperation and the idea that “two heads are always better than one.”
7. Sharpen the saw: Take time to update your skills and to recharge your batteries. Keep physical, social, emotional, mental and spiritual aspects of your life balanced.
If you cant get people to listen to you any other way tell them its confidential.